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Wednesday, September 26th, 2007
8:42 pm - More tube observations
I watched a man on the tube today.  I'd never have noticed him if it weren't for the fact that he didn't sit in his seat - he perched.  He didn't slump like his fellow commuters, but rather kept upright and tense.  I couldn't tell if his hands were trembling as they sat crossed in front of his belly or if it was the rattle of the train.

His face was a painting of anguish. His gaze was fixated on a deep nothingness somewhere in front of him and his lips were closed tight. His full face screamed more than his voice could - I watched his expression change as he pleaded, got angry, gave up, pretended not to care, gave a desperate smile then returned to his frown.  I recognised what he was doing.  I've gone through imaginary conversations in my mind before.  Trying to figure out what would be said.  Argue your case before you've even been asked to.

The sunset caught the side of his troubled face as we pulled out of White City.  The shadows it cast made him look even further away.  His phone returned him to the present. As he thumbed through his messages, he started to let go of whatever was eating him. For the first time since he sat down, his back touched the chair behind him. Calm started to fill his face as his eyes darted back and forth across the little screen in his hand.

At north Acton I left him to his relief. Walking up the stairs away from the platform I couldn't help but wonder what was going on in this man's life. What news did he get that lifted him so? Obviously in his case, no news wasn't good news.

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Wednesday, September 19th, 2007
11:53 pm - Epilogue
After writing about this guy and thinking I'd never see him again ...

He was at the same place I had to go to this afternoon to get my National Insurance number (like a social security or tax file number for the UK).  He's a Kiwi guy who obviously had to get out of work early for exactly the same reason as me.

I saw him nod off while waiting for his interview and couldn't help but stare again.  ;)

The world is a strange place sometimes!

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1:01 pm - On the tube ...
I watched a man as he slept on the tube today.

He had a stocky frame, mouse-brown hair, fair skin with light freckles.  Clean shaven except for a neatly trimmed goatee which framed his mouth, the ends of which curled down into a perpetual frown.  He wore worn work pants, boots and a polo shirt with the name of an electricians company on it.  His hands were broad and looked slightly rough.  His bottom lip had a ring (which didn't join up, but rather ended with a ball on each end) through it, just off centre.

As he slept with his head resting against the wall, he slumped down into his frame.  His folded arms slowly unfolded with the rocking of the train as it hurtled through the tunnel, letting his hands rest palm up on his lap.  I watched his hands as they moved and twitched.  One finger would move slightly, then his thumb, then three would curl up.  Occasionally he'd pull himself forward slightly - an unconscious twitch - and wake himself up.  I'd look at the tunnel passing through the window behind him while he looked around a little before settling back into his slumber, then I'd watch again.

I sat their listening to my iPod as songs from all sorts of artists came on.  People sang of love, life, guardian angels.  I wondered if he had a guardian angel.  I wondered if he'd been ... or would be ... a guardian angel for someone else.  Who did he love?  Who loved him?  Did he miss them as much as the voice on the song in my head claimed they missed their loved one?

I realised how strange it was to think about this other person and watch him like this.  But the alternative was close my eyes or look out the window, and neither seemed as fascinating.

Finally as we passed Chiswick Park, his phone woke him up.  We pulled up at Acton town station and we both got off the train.  I passed him up the stairs and very much doubt I'll ever see him again.  But I think I'll remember those hands moving in his sleep for a long time.

current mood: thoughtful

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Monday, October 2nd, 2006
1:07 am - Brighton Pride
Mark on pink
Mark flying Andy's pink union jack


The 5th of August was the day of Brighton Pride - the biggest gay pride event in the UK. Gordo and I hopped on the train with Andy and Darren from London Bridge and headed south to Brighton. We ate lunch by the waterfront and went for a walk along Brighton Pier before heading to the park for the main event.

It was a great day ... there were heaps of people that had made the effort to join in the celebration, from families to really out-there characters. We met up with quite a few friends there - Nick and Garry, Shaun plus Mick, Charlie and Damien. Spending the day in the sun, around a lot of people all having fun was great. They'd set up a fairground there, as well as heaps of dance tents, a karaoke area, market stalls, and even a boot-scooting tent!

The size of the event was staggering! Compared to any other event of that nature I'd been to, it was just amazing. According to the Brighton Pride website, there were 120,000 people there! It was very easy to believe that this was the biggest in the UK, if not europe!

Our first view of the sea Pride flag New toy


current mood: happy
current music: David vs the Egg - Don't Let Me Go

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Saturday, September 30th, 2006
12:54 am - A summer's night in London
The National Gallery - I want to live in a city where gentleness is never mistaken for weakness


Wondering around London at night with your camera is a fun pastime. :) This particular night at the start of August, it was a warm, still night and there were quite a few people around. Wondering around Trafalgar Square was a bit surreal ... despite the people around, they were largely silent as they watched the display being projected onto the facade of the National Gallery. Different messages, all starting with "I want to live in a city where ..." were being displayed, one after the other. It was obviously an art project of some kind ... and someone was recording it.

It was strange being there because the crowd that had gathered to watch and read the statements were, for the most part, watching it in silence. Occasionally one of the statements would provoke comment from some people, and others were met with applause. It was an awesome experience.

St. Martin in the Fields 2006-08-03 012 - Entrance to Piccadilly Circus 2006-08-03 013 - Building on Regent Street


current mood: sleepy

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Tuesday, September 26th, 2006
12:35 am
Busy Soho streets


One Saturday I caught up with Gordo and Mikey in Soho for Soho Pride. It was fun, and they'd pulled out all the stops - they'd closed off all of the streets in the area around Old Compton Street, which is very much the gay area of London and had set up stages at various places. They drew huge crowds and the pubs did roaring trades. We went for a wonder down Old Compton Street, along Dean Street, where I work, then down Frith Street and along to Soho Square.

The weather was just fantastic and it was fun to really be in the thick of things. To be honest, it was a little too packed for comfort, but it was still fun to go and check it out.

2006-07-30 013 - Gordo
Gordo was excited ;)


current mood: content
current music: MTV

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Friday, September 22nd, 2006
6:38 pm - Camden with Gem and Gordo playing cricket
Gordo Bowls


One Saturday at the end of July Gem and I wondered in to Camden Town and had a good look around. It was amazing - it was a warm summer's morning and we had a good look around the different markets. There was so many stalls selling all sorts of interesting things, and FANTASTIC food. I highly recommend freshly steamed corn on the cob with garlic butter. :D

The place was packed full of people and we had a great time wondering around doing a bit of window shopping and in the sun and the atmosphere. Oh - and I bought a few t-shirts. ;) I'm heading back there again, that's for sure.

And from Camden, I headed out to Wembly to watch the end of Gordo's first cricket match in the UK. :) He played really well, making 48 runs and taking two wickets! He felt it should've been three wickets, but you can't argue with the umpire. ;) It was great watching him play and have so much fun. The people on the team were great and really friendly ... plus it gave me a good excuse to try out my new 70-300mm lens. ;)

After a great match, Gordo and I had a BBQ dinner with the rest of the team. I was really proud of Gordo for getting out there and joining a team - playing cricket in the UK has been a dream of his ever since I've known him, and he finally made his dream come true. :D Way to go, G.

Looking down Regent's Canal The grounds of Preston Park A couple of spectators stop to watch


current mood: happy
current music: Simpsons Theme

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Wednesday, September 20th, 2006
11:11 pm - Farnborough Airshow 2006
A380 underside, close up


Towards the end of July, Gordo and I joined our friend Nick and some of his mates for a day trip to the Farnborough Airshow. And what a show it was! The cream of the crop of modern and classic aircraft were put through their paces to the delight of the crowd. Even the terrible weather wasn't enough to dampen people's spirits. In fact, some people found very creative ways to stay dry. ;) It was a bit of a struggle to keep water away from my camera at one point, but it was worth it - I took heaps of pics. ;)

There was a huge static display by the runway, and when the flying display started with a massive demonstrations by the Red Arrows, we knew we were in for a treat. After the Red Arrows flew off into the distance, the Airbus A340 took to the skies. Considering it's a passenger airliner, we were all very impressed with it's agility ... but the best was yet to come. Almost silently, the giant Airbus A380 took off and instantly banked at angles a thing that big should never be able to fly through the air at. Seeing this massive double-decker jet bank and roll like it was a fighter was incredible! For many people there (at least one of them who works for an airline), this was the highlight of the day. We had an amazing view of it landing too.

After the pilot got the A380 safely back to earth, military jets, helicopters, things in between and afterburners became the order of the day. :) Surprisingly, the loudest jet was also one of the smallest - the F-16.

Towards the end of the show, three legends of World War II took to the sky, to cheers from the crowd. The Spitfire and Hurricane performed a dogfight before joining the Lancaster in formation, marking the end of the show.

It was a fantastic time, and Gordo and I got to spend time with some great people. It was great for me to get to know Johnny, another shutterbug with great taste in photographic equipment (yup - that's a Nikon D70, cousin of my camera, with the same 70-300mm lens I bought for the occasion). ;) Sam, Lynds, Garry, Mark and Shaka were brilliant to hang out with too.

It was fantastic fun - I'm definitely going again next time it's on!!

F-16 under-side Panavia Tornado banks left with afterburners Saab JAS-39 Gripen top


current mood: sleepy
current music: Placebo - Meds

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Tuesday, September 19th, 2006
11:23 pm - By the way ...
Gordo and Mark on the Tube


Today, the 19th of September, marks the three month anniversary of Gordo and I touching down on British soil. A lot has happened in that time ... we've been to a wedding, gotten jobs (in fact, Gordo's changed jobs since last time I posted), moved into a great flat, seen a lot of London, driven out to the country side, seen ancient monuments, spent great times with friends and above all, had a wonderful time doing it all.

current mood: impressed

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11:05 pm - The British Motor Show
Saab's Aero X concept


Hello everyone! Sorry it's been so long between posting ... I really should do this more often! :) Needless to say things have been busy here. Time to get back into writing about what's been going on (and showing off some pics).

Back in July Gordo and I decided to go see Gordo's favourite band from the 80's, A-Ha (remember "Take on Me"?) in concert. The concert was part of a series of river-side shows that were being put on as part of the British Motor Show. Our tickets included special entry to the show before it was open to general admission. It meant we got to wonder around all of the cars without the huge crowds that the other days attracted.

The show was amazing. On a scale I'd never seen before, and with cars that would never make it to a show back home. There were cool cars, expensive cars, fun cars, racing cars, rally cars, classic cars, more than one concept car, bikes and a very large exhibition centre filled with other models. There was a lot to do and see, but we didn't end up spending all that much time there - we had to get going to the concert.

In the end, the concert was a bit of a let down. It was the first time Gordo had seen A-Ha live and to be honest they weren't the act he was hoping they would be. There were a few off-notes and in the end, the only song that really got the audience excited was their classic hit, Take On Me. Don't get me wrong, we were glad to have seen them and enjoyed the show, but I think we were both expecting more than was delivered.

2006-07-20 102 - Mark and Gordo


current mood: happy

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Wednesday, August 16th, 2006
12:35 am - London's Eye
London Eye Pods
Looking up at the London Eye
Looking towards the sun
Looking up at the eye




After a night on the town, Andy and Shaun joined us for a visit to the London Eye. The "flight", as the experience is called, was actually a lot of fun. The pods are air-conditioned and really quite comfortable and give you an amazing view - there isn't an angle you can't see. :) It gives you a great view of London and if you know what to look out for, there are some interesting land marks to see. Check out the bigger versions of the pics below - they've got some notes that point out places of interest.

London to the north Charing Cross Station with the Telecom Tower in the background The top of the MOD Looking west, through St James' park towards Buckingham Palace HM Treasury and the Foreign Office Looking south along the Thames Looking down Downing Street


After it had all finished, we sat for a while in the shade of some trees lining the Jubilee Gardens. Gordo then had to go to work and before heading home Andy, Shaun and I had a drink at a pub in Piccadilly, and witnessed a few classic cars (and a tank) go past as a celebration for the start of the Car Show. :)

current mood: sleepy
current music: Scissor Sisters - Ta-Dah

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Tuesday, August 15th, 2006
8:06 am - Another way to see London: The Big Bus Tour
The London Eye in front of Big Ben


Gordo and I joined Duncan and Gemma on one of the Big Bus tours that go all around London. We traveled through a few parts of town that we'd seen before, but soon crossed into the actual City of London. It was eye-opening finally seeing St. Paul's Cathedral, the Tower Bridge and London Bridge. Afterwards, we took a cruise back to Westminster along the Thames.

It was a fantastic trip out and a great way to see London. :)

The top of St Pauls The tower walls The Tower Bridge


current mood: good

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Monday, August 14th, 2006
7:06 am - A bright summer's day exploring London
It's early in the morning and after a weekend full of nothing but work (boo), I'm about to jump on the tube and go BACK to work. In the mean time, I thought I'd leave you with some pics of some exploring Gordo and I did around London one weekend (when I didn't have to work) ...

Ducks on the pond
Ducks on the pond in Gunnersbury Park

More ... )


current mood: exhausted
current music: Air - Don't Be Light

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Saturday, July 29th, 2006
1:32 am - Workin' for the man ...
Just a short post for now ... it's late over here. :)

Gordo hard at work
Gordo hard at work :)


That's Gordo at his position at the Sofitel St James in West London. It's on the corner of Regent Street and Pall Mall, a pretty prestigious address! His hotel has quite a few rich and famous guests ... Gordo's met a bunch of performers and DJ's, and recently Dame Judy Dench! Being the social creature he is, he often has a chat with them. :) He also gets to drive guest's cars between the hotel and carpark. So far he's driven BMW's, Mercedes and Jags - rather nice!

In contrast, I sit at a desk all day and write code. ;) Although to be honest it's a lot more fun than that. The company I work for is full of great people and the work's varied and interesting. Plus due to the fact it's in the private sector (before now I've been working for the government), it's a lot more dynamic.

The Frith Street office The Dean Street office - where I work


I work on Dean St in Soho, the office is pictured here on the right. It's an old building which has terrible ventilation and no airconditioning, so with London's current heat wave, it's been baking hot in there ... but there have only been a few days when it's been really bad. It's right in the heart of Soho, so I'm surrounded by cafes, restaurants, clubs, pubs and cool shops. I've been very good and haven't spent much money there ... yet. Soho's also the home to Old Compton Street, which is basically *the* gay strip of London. You see a lot of couples walking along holding hands or hugging each other ... guys with girls, girls with girls and guys with guys ... it all happens in Soho and I love being there very day. :)

So yeah ... that's our employment situation. So far it's working out really well. :)

current mood: sleepy
current music: Modjo - Lady

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Sunday, July 23rd, 2006
4:27 pm - Hyde Park
The grand entrance to Hyde Park
The south east entrance to Hyde Park


I'd gone into town with Gordo for lunch, then as I left him at his work, I went for a walk. I started at Piccadilly Circus, walked down to St James' Park, along to Green Park and up to Hyde Park corner. From there, I walked along the eastern border of the park up to Marble Arch and Speaker's Corner at the north east of the park, before heading west and walking along the northern border. To be honest, most of that part of the park isn't that picturesque, but it was a good walk ... and quite a long way. It was interesting to walk along next to two people on horseback for a while, and to see all the different folk who walked through the park.

Before long I reached the north east corner of Kensington Gardens, which is much prettier than Hyde Park's northern edge. The gardens are beautiful and carefully maintained. Queen Anne's Alcove is right next to the Italian Gardens, which are just north of the Longwater and a statue of Peter Pan. A copy of that statue lives in the Queens Gardens back in Perth, so it was cool being able to see the original. I continued west, along the perimeter, venturing further into the park to see the occasional statue and take in the vastness of it all.

I rounded the north western corner and walked down to Kensington Palace, from there east to the Round Pond and then finished my circuit of Kensignton Gardens along the southern edge.

After passing the Alfred Memorial, I crossed back into Hyde Park and wondered up to the Serpentine. The walk back was fantastic, the weather was beautiful and warm and I was proud to have done a little bit of exploring around London. :)

The Royal Albert Hall Bears hugging Sporting grounds White Swan


current mood: content
current music: The Futurama Theme Song

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Thursday, July 20th, 2006
11:47 pm - Showing your pride
Saturday July the 1st was Europride here in London. Gordo and I didn't take part though ... we were taking pride in a different expression of pride and love.

The best men flank the grooms


Two good friends of ours, Andy and Shaun got married (had a civil union), and Gordo and I were fortunate enough to be able to attend the ceremony. To be honest, this event was the reason for the timing of our trip. The ceremony was short but sweet. There were some chuckles when the celebrant said "And to remain faithful" ... and you could tell she was a little thrown when it came to the end. Instead of "You my now kiss the bride", she kind of paused and stumbled over "You may now share a kiss". ;) We all shared a good laugh about it afterwards.

Once the ceremony had finished, everyone went outside for photos, before coming back inside for the meal (which was wonderful). After that, we all relaxed with a bit of gambling (for entertainment, they'd hired a portable casino which was very cool) before more guests arrived, the music was turned up and we all partied away into the night.

It was a fantastic weekend and everyone there enjoyed themselves. It was awesome to meet Andy and Shaun's friends and family - they're great people that Gordo and I now count as mates too. It was certainly one of the weddings of the year. One that we were very proud to be a part of. :)

Gordo and Mark Sharing a dance Peter, Adam, Dr John, Brian, Neil and Gordo


current mood: great
current music: DJ Shadow - In Tune and On Time

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Tuesday, July 18th, 2006
11:29 pm - Our new home
Our new home
Our flat is the top story of the house on the left


I just realised that I haven't yet mentioned our new place ... Gordo and I have moved into our new home in Acton, West London. It's a two bedroom flat on the top floor of the terrace house in the picture. The floor underneath is occupied by our lovely neighbours, Tony and Bibi. The house next door is owned by an elderly Indian gentleman who doesn't go out much and certainly hasn't taken as much pride in his place as the landlord of our place has. Speaking of the land-lord, he lives next door on the other side. :)

At the end of the month Daniel and Michael are moving in. They're friends of ours from back home so it'll be good to share with another couple of Aussies. :)

current mood: tired

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Sunday, July 16th, 2006
9:55 pm - St James' Park
St. James' Park
I was surprsied to see a black swan on St. James' lake


Gordo had gone for an interview at the Sofitel St. James, so I decided to go for a walk around the park from which the hotel was named. St James' Park is one of the great little pockets of green and peace in a city full of people, glass, stone, concrete and tarmack. I walked down the Duke of York Steps to the north east corner of the park and wondered down to the lake. From there, I took a walk west towards Buckingham Palace, the traditional home of the British Monarchy. I walked towards the entrance to the Palace via Green Park which is another beautiful green haven ... this time slightly less peaceful though.

I was stunned when a mounted police officer decided to give his trusty steed a bit of a workout ... he galloped all the way from the gates of Green Park, along the broadwalk all the way to the northern side of the park. I wasn't sure if he was trying to get somewhere in a hurry or just wanted to stretch the horse's legs, but either way it was a real surprise to see!

The palace is breathtaking, and the Queen Victoria Memorial is amazing to behold. I loved the whole experience of being surrounded by history and tradition. It was great.

Before long I heard that Gordo had finished his interview and that it went really well, so I walked back along The Strand towards Piccadilly Circus. It was an awesome way to spend the afternoon and it made me resolve to explore more of London's parks.

Carlton House Terrace on The Mall Buckingham Palace A reminder of old times


current mood: pleased
current music: TV in the background

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Thursday, July 13th, 2006
8:01 am - The Keggers' netball final
I was going to write about the Keggers' netball grand final, but Gem beat me to it, and did a much better job. ;) I was proud to be the official photographer for the match, and obviously Gem was the official reporter. :)

The Keggers - Lisa, James, Duncan, Andie, Kurt, Leann, Gem and Andy (Damage the mascot in the background)


current mood: happy
current music: TV in the background

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Tuesday, July 11th, 2006
11:29 pm - Embracing the way of the British
I don't think it gets more British than having a BBQ in the rain ... but that's what we did. :) Back home, if the weather even looks a little grey, it's time to move the barbie under cover or give up and get pizza ... but here, nothing was going to stop us. :)

BBQ in the rain ... only in the UK


Our friends Duncan and Gemma, who we stayed with for our first week in town, have been a huge help to us over here. As have Mark and Mel. Mark came 'round to the Keg Palace (Mel had to work late, unfortunately) to sample Dunc and Gem's hospitality with us to watch the football (it's not called soccer here). We at sausages off the barbie cooked over coals (another thing the British do differently - our BBQ's usually have gas burners) and had a great time. :)

It's reassuring to know that even though we're on the other side of the world, friends are close at hand. :)

current mood: sleepy

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